Naturally, we were born with two ears and one mouth. It’s been always alerting us not to talk much in real life, what we need to do is listening. A great guy whose life comes up well-trained is the one who is really good at listening.
A good teacher is good at listening!
A doctor is a good listener!
A leader who gets most respected from others is because he/she is a good listener!
Father and Mother become good parents because they listen to their kids’
problems or needs!
You as well! If you want to be a good guy, you need to be good at listening.
Listen to people surrounding and pick up good points to practice, whereas
avoiding bad points in life. You will always learn something from people
outside if you open your mind to mostly listening to them, not always opposing
them. The power of good listening is more profitable than you might think.
Frankly, in my real life, I love to listen more than speak whenever I meet
someone, even my friends and family members. I talk only when I have to, for
example, when I have good ideas to share with them. Many people wonder why I’m
almost silent when I'm with other people. Exactly, only some of my friends
understand me; they know I am a good listener. I value the speaker by paying
attention to listen about what they speak. Because of this, everyone who speaks
in front of me always feels comfortable. And you know, "I learned a lot
from them." Sometimes I get great experiences and many diamond tips from
the one who talks to me by costing nothing. If I buy a book to read, at least,
I need to spend some money and energy to read, but if I listen, I only need to
spend time to think about what they have said. As I mentioned earlier, just
pick up the good points and avoid the bad ones. You waste nothing, but you earn
much. Make sure that only a smart guy knows this advantage and knows how to
gain this benefit. Practice in your life, listen more than talking. And be sure
to understand why I want you to be a good listener, not a bad one. The bad ones
never know how to evaluate and analyze what they have heard, so sometimes they
pick up the bad points to practice in their lives or even support the bad
points as well. So, I do hope you don’t.
You are a well-trained guy, thus you may be able to analyze both good and bad points. And you may bring only the good ones to fulfill your life to be better and better.
You listen, you learn.
You speak, you only produce what you have learned.
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