How to make a happy couple?

Hey you! Don’t expect your partner to fully understand your mind. It’s not like a romantic story you've seen in a movie. A story is written by a film writer; all characters are well organized, but in real life they are not.

Whatever you think, you need to show it, especially to your spouse. You need to show how you value him/her. How important is he/she? At this point, I encourage you to tell other people about the values of your husband and wife. Why? Other people admire not only your spouse but also you. They will regard your couple as role models. Both men and women need values; the more you value your spouse, the more he/she loves you. Let me give you two different couples' stories as an example.

The first couple:

            "A sweet couple lives near the river in a small village. They normally help each other with farming. The heavy jobs are the responsibility of the husband, and the easy ones are for the wife. One day, the villagers called the husband to join a party and drink some wine. It was almost the whole day. It’s nearly evening, so his wife went to the party place in order to look at her husband. When she arrived, the first thing she looked at was the bottle of wine. At that time, she talked nothing with her husband, she just gave some money to one of the villager to buy more wine and she just smiled around and went back home. After she left, all the villagers really admired her and appreciated her husband, who had gotten such a great wife. Because of the great heart of her, the man, husband, loves her wife more and more. And they fully bring full happiness into their family."

The second couple:

            This couple works almost the same things with the couple in the first story. One day, after farming around noon time, the villagers also called the husband to join the village party as the above story.

*Before I tell you the exact story, let me tell you about the opposites between these two couples. Here it is. The wife in this story is pretty lazy, and she is very talkative. Okay, let's see the whole story.

            After farming, the man, husband, also went to join the party. Only around half hour, the woman, wife, went to the party place and blamed her husband mostly bad words. Not only blaming her husband but also the villagers he was drinking with. She valued her husband like a dog. All the villagers recognized her bad behavior and asked that man to go because they didn’t want to let his wife look down on them more than this. Exactly, this couple almost has the violence day and night.

            You see the both stories above! They are completely different. If you don’t value your partner, how can other people value him/her? And he/she will never value you, too. Couple live means live to add value each other not mean to make one down because of you. 

Source book: Couple Life 

Author: Piseth Ngat

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