Now it comes to this stage of success, which I suggest you to change your thought before they are too late to change. Obviously, I have seen many people in my village that do not change their thoughts and they remain the same place. Last year, I came to my village, the house and people living standard were the same as I was living there 20 years ago, and they did not change at all.
It makes me question myself-why can’t they change their
lifestyles, living standard and houses? Why do they still become poor and
remain the same now? “Living in the countryside is still the countryside, it
seems they cannot do anything better and cannot get out.” This thought has
trapped their mindset not to flourish-not seeking anything better outside their
village. They are scared to go out of the village and find other treasures. Your
thought is what you will act apparently. Whenever you have a positive mindset,
it projects outside, and your whole characteristics will follow you. You do not
only influence your behavior, but others who are coming to talk to you, too. Give
much attention and listen to others as much as you can before you talk, that is
the key to win the negotiation and catch other’s weaknesses. If you need
success, you must change your bad and negative mindset which has rooted in your
brain and it causes you to fail.
The best way to change your thought is by asking
yourself, “Why can’t I get along with others easily or well?” There are the
reasons that you cannot get along with others.
First, it is because of your thoughts. You think you are
always better than others. You act arrogantly, and sometimes you are too
emotional without reasons.
Second, it is because of others who have negative mindset, and you have positive mindset. But remember that this world you cannot escape from the negative mindset people, thus you need to learn how to calm, deal and listen to them.
Source Book: Right Choice-Right Time
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