Thursday, May 18, 2023

Time Waits For No Men by Bin Yan

EVERY TIME I LOOK THE CLOCK ON THE WALL OF MY HOUSE- I see the time runs supper fast, faster than the sound of airplanes or spaceships launching to another planet. It is faster than the wave of the ocean and birds that fly. When I look to the watch on my arm, I see the seconds, minutes and hours jump so quickly.

Every night, I look to the stars. The moon rises and sets, it is great in the dark sky, but it makes me cry? Why do I cry? Because I miss all the things in my childhood life- which I cannot bring back and get them back. I have all the memories that I used to do in the past, such as taking a bath by the lake near my house, trekking with dogs in the forest, finding cricket and frogs to eat along the Mekong River side, finding flowers and mushrooms in the jungle with my grandma, playing with the toy cars that I made out of a tree near my rice field cottage.

I cut that tree and my father hit me and I ran away with my friends. I miss when I was walking in the jungle alone and looked around at the trees and the sky. I always like the birds flying. I miss my mom holding my body, finding my lice on my head, and she kissing me. I miss my friends who used to go to jungle together and threw the flowers at each other and we smiled and laughed together. I miss the time that I came to find the snails in the streams, ditches, and rivers. I remember when I climbed up the tree, and I fell down and got injured. I still get the scar from the wound now because I did not listen to my big sisters that it was slippery during the rainy time. I remember too, the time I paddled and rowed the boat across Mekong River, and there was a big storm and it hit me and my boat sank into the deep Mekong River. I was alone, but luckily I could swim well, so I was safe. I miss to the time when I rode the old bicycle to study from my jungle planation through the silent deep jungle and grave-yards. I saw many wild animals, but now the people have destroyed them all.

I miss to the time that I and my big brothers and sisters had no food to eat. We came to dig the wild potatoes to eat, but unluckily we got poisoned which almost killed us all. I miss to the time that my second biggest brother brought many watermelons for us while we had no food to eat. I miss to the stream behind my house where I made Thanos (Bamboo Dam) to catch the fish. I miss the jungle fields where my other friends in my village and I took the cows and buffalos to eat the grasses there. We blew on the leaves and it sounded like the opera music. I miss everything, but I really cannot go back now, I am grown up. Time really has brought me here. Time precisely has changed me. Time does not wait for anyone. It has no patience to wait for you, but most people ignore the time and do not hold it tightly.

This is time. What is time? Based on Cambridge Dictionary, “Time is the existence that measures minutes, days and years.”

Basically, time is not just only an hour, a minute or a second, but all of them. It is like the iceberg melting due to the heat. Time waits for no one. While the spaceship is launching, it is losing time somehow as well.

Definitely, time is everything in life. Time is the master, father, mother and friend of the present and the future. Time can actually limit your success or failure if you cannot catch it or use it well. Certainly, never expect future success if you cannot manage and control your time properly.

I’ve seen many people who have ended up with regret and hopelessness when they got old because while they were young, they did not use time accurately-they wasted it with bad things. Some people have been involved in too much gambling and alcoholic drinking; they did not seek for a better life. They sometimes sold their houses and land due to gambling debt and sometimes got divorced due to the debt, and still continued to waste it. They did not know that time is their lives. Obviously, if you are investing in gambling, I bet you will never be the champion because gambling will never let you be the champion. So, never waste your time with that. However, everyone has bad experiences of wasting time, even I myself. Wasting time is not only about playing games too much, but hanging out with bad friends, this is the wrong choice as well. The richest man in the United States, Warren Buffet said, “If you want to be rich, find a buddy who likes talking about business, not useless stuff.”

Therefore, this means that choosing the people you walk with is a matter of your success or failure, too. Back to me, I used to waste my time by not finding things to develop myself when I was an adult, such as hanging out with friends too much; however, after that I realized that hanging out too much had caused me to delay on my working duties, school assignments and so I failed and my study went backward compared to my classmates. Moreover, when I was a kid, I spent too much time looking after cows and buffaloes for others so I started to go to primary school too late at the age of 10 years old, while others normally started primary school at the age of 5 or 6 years old in Cambodia. Nevertheless, I’m not disappointed since I had no parents like others to support or buy study materials for me, there weren’t any schools there in my village at that time. But because of this now I do not want any of you who have parents or you can afford to go to school, start too late like me. Try to do everything on time and at the right time-do not wait for time because the waits for no men. Time never waits  you, only you who are waiting, while everything has moved so quickly. Remind yourself every day that you must do something rightly and on time-never be carelessly.

Don’t say or think that yo get much time now because time marched on. Have you ever thought about being an adult when you were a kid before? As for me, I used to think that and now I am grown up and wish to go back to the kid again, but will never let me go back. It sounds very funny, but it is true. We are all aging nothing will last long. Have you ever though that you are going to be like this and like that in the future? Have you ever drawn your own future to be who you are today? For me, I have thought and drawn my future when I was a kid to be who I am today. And I become as I am today because I wished to be a writer. However, my wish is not yet ended, it is continuously changing. I want to be a Prime Minister of Cambodia in the future. Can I do it? Well, let’s wait and see! We cannot estimate that I can or I cannot, only time can tell when we prepare something well. Remember that, only those who try hard with strategic plans and control time well will achieve their goals and wishes in the future. If I do not catch the time well, I will not be able to achieve my goals as the Prime Minister. You can achieve everything if you can catch and use the time properly. Some people have wasted time until they get short on time to do it, then, how can they get success? No doubt about that, they remain in failure and slow in progress.

I have spent my time properly and I have seen the fruitfulness since then. What about you? How are you going to spend your time? How are you going to hold and catch your golden time nicely.

Some people are wasting time or just focus much on working and earning money, but forget to take care and look after of their health-until one day they find they have a serious illness which cannot be cured. How are you going to spend your money while you are only having a short time to live? Critically, most people put more importance on money than health, and put their status higher than their dignity, virtue and morality. They feel anxious and furious about every day-this has caused health problems. The angrier you are, the more you are sad. So be happy and smile-no matter how difficult your life is. You must be careful not to forget your time because time never forgets you. Consequently, use your time to develop and improve your health, your wisdom, your ability, morality and dignity-not being well known.

Time is priceless, virtuous, crucial and constructive-thus, if you do not use it, it will affect you hugely. Your life is in your time and your time is in your life. Hold your time tightly like you are holding the gold or diamond which you will never drop.

Source Book: Right Choice-Right Time
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